There have been many cases that filter through the judicial system which include lies and betrayals. At that moment betrayal is discovered, people often wonder “can it get much worse” and then it inevitability does. Whether your betrayal comes from an addict who drinks or does drugs, a shopaholic maxing-out credit cards, a smile that turns abusive behind closed doors, or the cheating spouse, you will eventually step back and see what was plainly obvious, and that foolish love stole your heart.
When you find out your spouse isn’t the person you thought they were, reality begins to set in, and you wonder what other things you didn’t know. Many are surprised to find out that a cheating spouse didn’t have just one lover, but many; or the shopaholic doesn’t have 5 credit cards but twice as much. Suddenly you find yourself engulfed in divorce proceedings with the paperwork you can’t decipher and a spouse you don’t recognize. It’s one of life’s major stressors and it can swallow you whole and make you agree to things that maybe you shouldn’t, just to be done with it all.
It’s moments like this where we shut our eyes even tighter and wish it all away, but this is when you should reach out and seek professional support. There are many firms, like ours, that offer consultations to help find a firm that best suits your needs, someone that can listen and help you make informed decisions, and if need be, fight for you. Mostly, you want someone with experience in many aspects of family law because each case is unique, and each case comes with its own set of rules.
When betrayal invites itself into your relationship and you need assistance, you want to hire a law firm that takes the time to understand your situation and knows what to look for, for you. There have been many times that assets are hidden, and debts come seeping out of the paperwork that you had no idea that they were there and suddenly you are liable for things you didn’t know existed or even worse, hidden assets you were entitled to that you may never receive. It takes experience and a keen eye to know what to look for and to find things that aren’t fully disclosed. Make it a priority to talk to a professional who can explain how the proceedings work, where to find hidden assets, or if it’s even worth the cost of pursuing.
If you suspect your spouse may be lining up a case at your expense, contact our office to protect yourself; because people with tendencies to hide things, hide many things. Call our office to book an appointment for a consultation. We will work with you to determine the most cost-effective way to deal with your specific situation.
For more information and to schedule a consultation, please call the Law Offices of Steven B. Chroman, P.C., at 661-255-1800 or visit us at www.chromanlaw.com. Mr. Chroman is a Trusted Advisor Award Winner and named Top 100 California Attorneys with over 20 years of experience and local service.
This article was originally published in Santa Clarita Magazine as part of our firm’s mission to make family law information more accessible to the Santa Clarita community. Read the full feature and others at santaclaritamagazine.com.