We know how the uncertainty associated with a pending divorce can be unsettling to everyone. The husbands and wives that are totally dependent, upon his or her spouse for their financial welfare, as well as the welfare of the children, are the most frightened and uncertain. For a spouse fearful for his or her physical safety at the hands of an abusive mate, this strain can make the prospect of divorce more than they are willing to face.
Not knowing how they will pay the bills, care for their children, or protect themselves and their children from violent spouse, has kept many husbands and wives from taking that first big step and filing for divorce. The result can be depression and hopelessness because the person feels trapped in a loveless and dangerous marriage.
There is an alternative. A request for restraining orders may include a request for financial support, both spousal support and child support. The necessary forms and information must be filed with a request for restraining orders. The requesting spouse requests the Court to provide them with financial relief for their living expenses, support for their children, and even pay attorney fees. Once issued, the order remains in place until further amended by the court, until the divorce is dismissed, or until the final divorce judgment is entered and a final support order is established.
In situations where one spouse is fearful of a physically or emotionally abusive husband or wife, the restraining orders can also request the abusive spouse be excluded from the family home.
Restraining order motions are not granted automatically—Having a good attorney helps.
Importantly, neither these protections nor the financial relief, is automatic upon filing the motion. The court must agree with the necessity and order their implementation.
Our firm brings the compassion, experience and skill required in dealing with these situations and in seeing that the appropriate level of support and protection is provided. We work closely with the local domestic violence centers and suggest you contact them if you need a safe place for you and your family.
Divorce is a difficult experience on many levels: emotionally, legally, and often financially. Having the right Attorney or Mediator can reduce all of these burdens. The Law Offices of Steven B. Chroman, P.C., is committed to helping you understand your options and make the best choices for yourself. Call our office today at 661-255-1800 or visit us online at www.chromanlaw.com to schedule your free consultation.
This article was originally published in Santa Clarita Magazine as part of our firm’s mission to make family law information more accessible to the Santa Clarita community. Read the full feature and others at santaclaritamagazine.com.